HAVING TROUBLE RESPECTING THE MAN YOU SEE IN THE MIRROR?

I WAS THAT MAN
BUT NOT ANYMORE

I FORGED MYSELF INTO A DISCIPLINED MAN OF STRENGTH

INTO MF1A - My Family's First Aid

There is an epidemic in the world, an epidemic of men, husbands, fathers and leaders not living the life their people need them to live. Men consumed with disciplined weakness, anxiety, depression, loss of identity, suicidal and living a life of regret and shame. I was there and am no more. I forged a process of disciplined daily habits of strength and lived according to them. This process changed my life and I once again became the man that I and my people needed me to be!  

JOIN THE COMMUNITY
MF1AFORGE.com 

 MF1Aforge.com is a private group of like minded men, striving to become disciplined men of strength. We approach this through a process, the MF1A forging process. I offer a few different ways to participate, see the below options.

30 Day Men's Challenge

Take action NOW and start forging yourself into a disciplined man of strength!

Men's 1:1 Coaching

This is a monthly, 1:1 program.
COMING SOON!

The Forge

This is a 7 week, intensive group.
COMING SOON!

Forged Leadership

This is an overview of leadership principles. You will learn the basics of leadership and apply them to your life. COMING SOON!



THE KEY TO FORGING YOURSELF INTO A DISCIPLINED MAN OF STRENGTH

MEMBERSHIP IN THE MF1A FORGE

This is where we meet and communicate the work we are doing. Learn and apply the forging blueprint. This is where you work along side other men to better yourself; emotionally, intellectually, spiritually and physically. 

  • ​We will be utilizing an on-line devotional separate from the MF1A Forge! Then we utilize the MF1A Forge chat to talk about how the devotional is impacting out lives.
  • ​Minimum 1 hour live video call every Sunday at 3 pm MST.
  • Interact in the MF1A Forge social feed, upload stories throughout the day to our private platform. 
  • Track your strong daily habits in the Mf1A Forge creating accountability for yourself and others.  
  • Network with like minded men working to better themselves. 
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My Name is Jose Tovar

     I am happily married, almost 20 years, we have four boys and a thriving marriage! I am a Veteran of the United States Marine Corps, Veteran Firefighter Paramedic, and local business owner. A few years ago I was medically retired, lost my career, almost lost our home and we went into complete financial ruin. It was here that I lost myself, my identity and my way. I couldn't stand the man I saw in the mirror, I was very angry at life, I felt like a loser, failure and didn't deserve my family. Ironically, not a single person I have known has ever thought these things of me. Quite the contrary, I have always been a leader, a good son, a good fireman, a good Marine, a good man, husband and father. Accordingly, I have received numerous awards and accolades and have the family to show it. Sure I made mistakes. However, overall I was successful, professionally and personally. 
     Once the injury, ensuing medical retirement and it's fallout occurred, I lost sense of who and what I was. I became weak in heart, mind, soul and strength. I became disciplined to weakness, lost.
      I realized that I needed to get myself out of this pit. I resurrected my old men's group plans and outlines and began working on myself. I began the arduous process of forging myself into the man I needed to see in the mirror. Into the man my people needed me to be. Thus, MF1A - My Family's First Aid was forged into being. 
     I have helped men to define and redefine who they are. I have helped men save their jobs, marriages, family's and themselves. I have helped them to begin and deepen their relationship with God. To become disciplined men of strength. Through my forging process and example of being a man, husband and father, on-line men's groups, and in person relationships.

SEE THE LIFE I AM LIVING

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Having a hard time respecting yourself? 

You're here because your not showing up as the man, husband or father that you need to be. 

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Does This Sound Like You?


Don't worry!
Most men are facing these challenges and struggling just like you. 
 

  • Do you lack self confidence? Do you lack strong, daily habits of strength?
  • Are your days unorganized? 
  • Are you frustrated that you have tried to find a way, a path to be a better man? 
  • When it comes down to it, do you want to change your life, to level up as a man, husband or father?
  • Well, you are in the right place!
  • In the MF1A Forge you will have the opportunity to change your life. To increase self confidence, create and live out strong daily habits, to organize your day, to see a strong path upon which to start living your life. To become a disciplined man of strength!

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The Solution!
Start showing up as the man, husband or father that you want to be!  

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Take action and give the action time!

Identify the foundational aspects of a man. Identify the failures and successes in your life. Create actionable goals and learn to plan them into your day. 

  • ​Identify your purpose and increase your self confidence and respect! 
  • Identify strong daily habits and plan them into your day in a systematic way. We utilize an online habit tracker in our private group to forge accountability!
  • Identify, systematically and objectively, the failures in your life and turn them into actionable goals. Then, plan these goals and actions into your day!
  • Join this group of men striving for a new way of living.